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If you are here,  my guess is you are discouraged, angry, tired of getting used or walked upon, lonely, scared, confused, unsure of your own gut instincts anymore, and maybe feeling a little insane.  You may be flailing desperately, or simply need better grounding.  You may be lost, confused and alone due to toxicity or emotional abuse in your relationships.  You may simply be unsettled by the complacency that has taken hold of your marriage.  Or the people you’ve counted on to help have let you down.  Your friends, your church, and extended family seem inattentive at best, and downright harmful at worst.

You’re having a hard time finding somewhere solid and safe to turn to.  Let us help you find hope in the chaos, purpose in the mess.

It’s so cliche to say that life doesn’t always turn out as you want.  We all know that.  Yet there’s a part of us that still believes that if we put in the right kind of effort, it will at least look a little bit closer to our ideal.  But, that’s not true either, because there are a million variables over which we have absolutely no control, even if we think we do!

The variable that is probably the most complicated is the other autonomous person you are connected to, who has his or her own idea of how to do life. Add their brokenness to your brokenness, and the mess can get so out of control you forget what you are aiming for.  It could look so much easier if you could orchestrate love and connection, but that requires the cooperation of the other party whose perceptions and opinions are usually quite different.  It is especially hard when the brokenness includes the brute trauma of narcissism and emotional abuse.

Lean into living your life purposefully, intentionally becoming who God has designed, purposed, and called you to be.  Whether you are staying in a relationship and longing to do that well, or you are trying to get out to be well, or you are undecided, there is healing and life to be found.  Let’s find it.

We offer virtual coaching to find healing and freedom from emotionally & verbally abusive relationships/marriages, and for those struggling through separation or divorce when neither of those are options you ever thought you’d have to navigate.