Narcissistic Victim Syndrome: Part 2 What is Working to Help

WHAT IS WORKING TO HELP  (This content is adapted from a presentation Sharmen has co-presented at a national counselors convention. […]

NARCISSISTIC VICTIM SYNDROME: What emotional abuse does to a person.

See this list?  All of these items represent adverse issues victims of emotional abuse experience. Each item, if experienced on […]

What is your bias?

In previous blogs, I’ve been writing about how we’re impacted by trauma.  As a relationship coach specializing in high-conflict marriages […]

Attachment has a Role

Impact of Attachment Styles I’ve set out to describe a simple framework for understanding the impact of trauma on a […]

Trauma-informed Living

As a relationship coach specializing in high-conflict marriages and those recovering from narcissistic and emotional abuse, I get a first-hand […]

His New Nickname

We get stuck in loops trying to figure out why our spouse (or any other significant other) does what they […]

Random Thoughts About Submission

Love ceases to be love when free will is taken out of the equation. Think for a moment about the […]

A Time for Anger

By the time most couples seek help with their marriage, anger is a profound element of the relationship.  I’ve also […]