Is This Change For Real?

Is this Change For Real? When things have gotten dire enough to come for help, this also means you have […]

Rightfully Angry

By the time most couples seek help with their marriage, anger is a profound element of the relationship. I’ve also […]

Beyond Closed Doors

My wife walked out on me 3 years ago, just a few days before our 23rd anniversary.  She said she […]

Chemistry is Not Connection

When you jump into the deep end, by default you flail around and desperately try to get your head above […]

Healing Together

Part 5 of a series adapted from my presentation at the AACC 2018 Meganational Conference, a lecture given to counselors, […]

Denying the Reality of Spiritual Abuse

This is Part 3 of a series adapted from my presentation at the AACC 2018 Meganational Conference, a lecture given […]

Please Just Make it Stop

One of the biggest issues creating stumbling blocks for breaking free and healing from emotional abuse is a well-meaning response […]

Staring Abuse in the Face

Staring Abuse in the Face This is the first in a series about healing from narcissistic and emotional abuse, adapted […]